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		<title>Comment on Latin female artist draws criticism for Times Square mural by This Week in Diversity: &#171; the open book</title>
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		<dc:creator>This Week in Diversity: &#171; the open book</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Mar 2010 03:53:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] article from Single Women Rule raises these issues as it discusses murals by a Latina artist that some people claim are demeaning to Black and Latina women. The artist&#8217;s agent is quoted [...]</description>
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		<title>Comment on Latin female artist draws criticism for Times Square mural by Blutopaz</title>
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		<dc:creator>Blutopaz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Mar 2010 22:32:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This conversation lets you know the mindset of the people who want to fight for the right to appear subversive, but basically end up shouting the overly simplified, predictable claims of &quot;BOURGIE!!&quot;  that was tired back in the 1970&#039;s. If you want to see busted chicks presented then that&#039;s fine, but if you are unable to present a point without getting gully without the ignant name caling, well that&#039;s on you.  And spare me the cyberspace psychology with the &quot;ya&#039;ll just don&#039;t want white folks looking at us!&quot;  retort. Stupid racists are always going to see what they want, so personally, that is not a concern of mine. 

But this is the main argument being used to defend this art and it&#039;s amazing. Black folks cussing out other Blacks who are tired of negative imagery. That is some of the most ignorant, backwards bs I have ever heard.  It&#039;s cool to not understand the controversy, but even the writer&#039;s words &#039;black folks protesting stuff they have no biz protesting&#039; raises questions. And for the &#039;well why don&#039;t yall protest this and that&#039;--how do you know the critics of this mural haven&#039;t already voiced their opinions re: coonery in the media? You can&#039;t get a show like Flava of Luv cancelled because the network is a conglomerate monster. But a mural in Times Square is more accessible, and some people have chosen to speak out against it.  What is wrong with that?  And as far as the &quot;art&quot; itself (aside from the racial subtext)-does anyone really see the beauty or aesthetic value of this mural, or is it just an excuse to make an attempt to practice reverse classism? 

and again- why is it that when some Black people don&#039;t relate to the certain types of art (this mural, Tyler Perry flicks-lol), the first word to be shouted is BOURGIE? Is that the best you can do-not relating to these images is the same as &#039;yall just trying to be white, and make white folks like yall! Ya&#039;ll bougie mofos ain&#039;t keeping it RE-ALLLLLL!!!&#039;-not the most original thought, is it?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This conversation lets you know the mindset of the people who want to fight for the right to appear subversive, but basically end up shouting the overly simplified, predictable claims of &#8220;BOURGIE!!&#8221;  that was tired back in the 1970&#8217;s. If you want to see busted chicks presented then that&#8217;s fine, but if you are unable to present a point without getting gully without the ignant name caling, well that&#8217;s on you.  And spare me the cyberspace psychology with the &#8220;ya&#8217;ll just don&#8217;t want white folks looking at us!&#8221;  retort. Stupid racists are always going to see what they want, so personally, that is not a concern of mine. </p>
<p>But this is the main argument being used to defend this art and it&#8217;s amazing. Black folks cussing out other Blacks who are tired of negative imagery. That is some of the most ignorant, backwards bs I have ever heard.  It&#8217;s cool to not understand the controversy, but even the writer&#8217;s words &#8216;black folks protesting stuff they have no biz protesting&#8217; raises questions. And for the &#8216;well why don&#8217;t yall protest this and that&#8217;&#8211;how do you know the critics of this mural haven&#8217;t already voiced their opinions re: coonery in the media? You can&#8217;t get a show like Flava of Luv cancelled because the network is a conglomerate monster. But a mural in Times Square is more accessible, and some people have chosen to speak out against it.  What is wrong with that?  And as far as the &#8220;art&#8221; itself (aside from the racial subtext)-does anyone really see the beauty or aesthetic value of this mural, or is it just an excuse to make an attempt to practice reverse classism? </p>
<p>and again- why is it that when some Black people don&#8217;t relate to the certain types of art (this mural, Tyler Perry flicks-lol), the first word to be shouted is BOURGIE? Is that the best you can do-not relating to these images is the same as &#8216;yall just trying to be white, and make white folks like yall! Ya&#8217;ll bougie mofos ain&#8217;t keeping it RE-ALLLLLL!!!&#8217;-not the most original thought, is it?</p>
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		<title>Comment on Latin female artist draws criticism for Times Square mural by asha</title>
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		<dc:creator>asha</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Mar 2010 19:15:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>would the mural still be considered offensive if the women were a different color - same features, same attire, same body shapes but blue, orange or green?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>would the mural still be considered offensive if the women were a different color &#8211; same features, same attire, same body shapes but blue, orange or green?</p>
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		<title>Comment on Latin female artist draws criticism for Times Square mural by Dominican Queen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dominican Queen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Mar 2010 14:42:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I understand what Ms. Maldonado was trying to to but I find it disgusting. It&#039;s just portraying the image that all white people think of minority women. It&#039;s bad enough that a Latina painted it but that its put up right on 42nd street which is primarily visited by white people and tourist makes it worse they are just going laugh it feel that there is nothing wrong with the image which is not right how would you like if your daughter/sister/niece was portrayed in an image like that?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I understand what Ms. Maldonado was trying to to but I find it disgusting. It&#8217;s just portraying the image that all white people think of minority women. It&#8217;s bad enough that a Latina painted it but that its put up right on 42nd street which is primarily visited by white people and tourist makes it worse they are just going laugh it feel that there is nothing wrong with the image which is not right how would you like if your daughter/sister/niece was portrayed in an image like that?</p>
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		<title>Comment on Latin female artist draws criticism for Times Square mural by Mochach1na</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mochach1na</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Mar 2010 14:20:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am so tired of people being so friggin&#039; uptight about dumb shit like this.... Really?! A mural like this is more demeaning than say.... tv shows like Flava of Love, Charm School, or hell, even Jersey Shore that is seen by MILLIONS of people around the world?! How about worrying about how the media portrays americans ...in general to the rest of the world? 

This mural is only seen by people who are in the neighborhood.... but since these very people who wanted the mural taken down created so much drama about it, now there is media coverage, so more people get to view it. DOH!? Protest FAIL!

People who are protesting this mural should be protesting the media to stop promoting scantily clad women period. By the way, we see enough stiffs (people in business suits and briefcases) walking down the street, we don&#039;t need to see a mural of it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am so tired of people being so friggin&#8217; uptight about dumb shit like this&#8230;. Really?! A mural like this is more demeaning than say&#8230;. tv shows like Flava of Love, Charm School, or hell, even Jersey Shore that is seen by MILLIONS of people around the world?! How about worrying about how the media portrays americans &#8230;in general to the rest of the world? </p>
<p>This mural is only seen by people who are in the neighborhood&#8230;. but since these very people who wanted the mural taken down created so much drama about it, now there is media coverage, so more people get to view it. DOH!? Protest FAIL!</p>
<p>People who are protesting this mural should be protesting the media to stop promoting scantily clad women period. By the way, we see enough stiffs (people in business suits and briefcases) walking down the street, we don&#8217;t need to see a mural of it.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Latin female artist draws criticism for Times Square mural by Some Brain Games For All &#124; Sweet Shopping at thesweetmagnolia.com</title>
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		<dc:creator>Some Brain Games For All &#124; Sweet Shopping at thesweetmagnolia.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Mar 2010 07:38:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment on BadAss Chicks of Comedy: Get 1/2 off!! by Keysha</title>
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		<dc:creator>Keysha</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Mar 2010 07:00:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>; ) Chewy, your pic is there because you must have signed up, at some point in your life, signed up for a Gravatar!     http://en.gravatar.com/</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>; ) Chewy, your pic is there because you must have signed up, at some point in your life, signed up for a Gravatar!     <a href="http://en.gravatar.com/" rel="nofollow">http://en.gravatar.com/</a></p>
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		<title>Comment on BadAss Chicks of Comedy: Get 1/2 off!! by Chewy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Chewy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Mar 2010 06:29:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>btw did i create a profile i was not aware of?  how come I got pic? hm..   damn sexy..</description>
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		<title>Comment on BadAss Chicks of Comedy: Get 1/2 off!! by Chewy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Chewy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Mar 2010 06:21:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>wow.. props to Keysha I &lt;3 singlewomenrule.com</description>
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		<title>Comment on Latin female artist draws criticism for Times Square mural by Chris Johnson</title>
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		<dc:creator>Chris Johnson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Mar 2010 04:50:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Clearly everyone is entitled to their own opinions and perspectives. what bothers me most is that black woman first off raised and were the life coaches of the babies of their white slave masters. yet they were raped and treated like the hoes that were depicted by this artist in this failure of artistic expression. those pseudo black negroes up in here who have turned their noses up on those who stood in Times Square to fight for what they believed to be right just as this artist feels she is should be ashamed of themselves. As for the artist who claim that she lives in Bedstuy.....let me tell you something, she would have never gotten the opportunity to paint that mess in Brooklyn in Bedstuy, becasue it would be stained with paint and tagged by the gang bangers, and the so called project woman who would have chased her ass of the block if she had even attempted to put such trash up on our walls.

The reality is, the Times Square Alliance allowed this to happen and they and had a number of pieces to chose from, so lets not act like this chick did not know what she was allowed to paint. She got her check of $10,000 and did what they told her to do. So you ignorant fools keep going on about how she is great and is so talented, when the truth is .....this was an assault by those white so called artistic executives who run the Times Square Alliance,  to once again disrespect black folks. Point of information....If it were not for some of those Black woman of yesterday that this mural mocks in parody, that Latina would have never gotten the opportunity to have this monstrosity placed in Times Square in the name of Art!!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Clearly everyone is entitled to their own opinions and perspectives. what bothers me most is that black woman first off raised and were the life coaches of the babies of their white slave masters. yet they were raped and treated like the hoes that were depicted by this artist in this failure of artistic expression. those pseudo black negroes up in here who have turned their noses up on those who stood in Times Square to fight for what they believed to be right just as this artist feels she is should be ashamed of themselves. As for the artist who claim that she lives in Bedstuy&#8230;..let me tell you something, she would have never gotten the opportunity to paint that mess in Brooklyn in Bedstuy, becasue it would be stained with paint and tagged by the gang bangers, and the so called project woman who would have chased her ass of the block if she had even attempted to put such trash up on our walls.</p>
<p>The reality is, the Times Square Alliance allowed this to happen and they and had a number of pieces to chose from, so lets not act like this chick did not know what she was allowed to paint. She got her check of $10,000 and did what they told her to do. So you ignorant fools keep going on about how she is great and is so talented, when the truth is &#8230;..this was an assault by those white so called artistic executives who run the Times Square Alliance,  to once again disrespect black folks. Point of information&#8230;.If it were not for some of those Black woman of yesterday that this mural mocks in parody, that Latina would have never gotten the opportunity to have this monstrosity placed in Times Square in the name of Art!!!!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Latin female artist draws criticism for Times Square mural by Kylenne</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kylenne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Mar 2010 03:00:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>As a black woman and native New Yorker, it seems to me a lot of the pearl-clutching surrounding this piece boils down to &quot;white people are lookin&#039; at you&quot;. Check Wanda Sykes HBO special if you don&#039;t get the reference.

Quite frankly I think the people who are against this mural need to take a look in the mirror. A lot of the language I&#039;m hearing in the blogosphere from the people protesting this mural says way more about them than Ms. Maldonado. Why is it that &quot;ghetto&quot; has become an adjective to project every sort of neurotic classist, sexist &quot;we&#039;re not like THOSE (insert slur for working class ethnic group of your choice here)&quot; nonsense from the Jack &amp; Jill set? It&#039;s a self-imposed caste system and it&#039;s disgusting.

No, I&#039;m not into that kind of street culture personally. But as a queer, non-conformist black woman deeply involved in alternative subcultures I&#039;ve gotten my share of shit from these bougie types in my own family for not conforming to their ideas of what upstanding black women are supposed to look like. Art is supposed to provoke thought, get people talking. Good art is not supposed to be edgy for edgy&#039;s sake, but it often DOES make people uncomfortable and challenge people to examine their beliefs and prejudices. PoC women in particular seem to be damned if we do and damned if we don&#039;t. These bougie assholes need to focus on issues that matter and stop trying to silence a Latin@ artist. Dress it up however you want to, whether it&#039;s disingenuous &quot;what about the children&quot; crap or whatever, it&#039;s just the same old Victorian BS colored brown, punishing women for daring to do something they don&#039;t approve of. If they disapprove of this woman&#039;s art, why don&#039;t they take some of that time and money and sponsor a starving PoC artist whose artistic voice they approve of. But I bet the Kyriarchy is laughing again at us doing its work for it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As a black woman and native New Yorker, it seems to me a lot of the pearl-clutching surrounding this piece boils down to &#8220;white people are lookin&#8217; at you&#8221;. Check Wanda Sykes HBO special if you don&#8217;t get the reference.</p>
<p>Quite frankly I think the people who are against this mural need to take a look in the mirror. A lot of the language I&#8217;m hearing in the blogosphere from the people protesting this mural says way more about them than Ms. Maldonado. Why is it that &#8220;ghetto&#8221; has become an adjective to project every sort of neurotic classist, sexist &#8220;we&#8217;re not like THOSE (insert slur for working class ethnic group of your choice here)&#8221; nonsense from the Jack &amp; Jill set? It&#8217;s a self-imposed caste system and it&#8217;s disgusting.</p>
<p>No, I&#8217;m not into that kind of street culture personally. But as a queer, non-conformist black woman deeply involved in alternative subcultures I&#8217;ve gotten my share of shit from these bougie types in my own family for not conforming to their ideas of what upstanding black women are supposed to look like. Art is supposed to provoke thought, get people talking. Good art is not supposed to be edgy for edgy&#8217;s sake, but it often DOES make people uncomfortable and challenge people to examine their beliefs and prejudices. PoC women in particular seem to be damned if we do and damned if we don&#8217;t. These bougie assholes need to focus on issues that matter and stop trying to silence a Latin@ artist. Dress it up however you want to, whether it&#8217;s disingenuous &#8220;what about the children&#8221; crap or whatever, it&#8217;s just the same old Victorian BS colored brown, punishing women for daring to do something they don&#8217;t approve of. If they disapprove of this woman&#8217;s art, why don&#8217;t they take some of that time and money and sponsor a starving PoC artist whose artistic voice they approve of. But I bet the Kyriarchy is laughing again at us doing its work for it.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Latin female artist draws criticism for Times Square mural by Kal L.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kal L.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Mar 2010 23:57:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>How is her art work different from the works of Ernie Barnes and artwork like &quot;Sugar Shack&quot; that was a Marvin Gaye album and on every episode for the closing credits of Good Times, an all-Black television show?

I think this is the typical case of conservative attitudes slandering art that isn&#039;t agreeable to them, and cares to sow all of us that this isn&#039;t about race but about perceptions and values.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How is her art work different from the works of Ernie Barnes and artwork like &#8220;Sugar Shack&#8221; that was a Marvin Gaye album and on every episode for the closing credits of Good Times, an all-Black television show?</p>
<p>I think this is the typical case of conservative attitudes slandering art that isn&#8217;t agreeable to them, and cares to sow all of us that this isn&#8217;t about race but about perceptions and values.</p>
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