Love and romance: To get the right guy, make him value you

It’s human nature: Everybody wants to date a prize.

You do. I do. The guy you have your eye on does, too

Thing is, when we really, really like a man we become susceptible to doing things that lower our value in his eyes (just so you know, men are susceptible to lowering their value, too. These are the guys who  usually end up  being rejected by women for being  ”too nice”).

Everybody likes just enough of a challenge to think they’re getting someone special.

And you, my friend, are special.

So, you don’t sit around reading a man’s mind. You keep moving until he speaks up and steps up. You don’t sit around waiting for him to call. You make plans. You stay busy. You live a full life.

When he calls, you’re charming, smiley, and happy to hear his voice,  but you never break plans to go out with him. If he really wants to go out with you, he’ll suggest a time when you’re available.

When he calls and you’re not available to talk, by all means, call him back. Don’t play games. Treat him the way you’d have him treat you (and if he doesn’t treat you the way you’d  treat him, he’s not worth your time).

As for text messaging, avoid extended conversations. Text, “Busy now. Give me a call later. .” Texting is great for letting someone know you’re running late, but it doesn’t make for a relationship.  It’s too easy, and you don’t have time for lazy men.

Once you start acting like the prize you are, you’ll attract the man you deserve.