Comments on: Attack of the cyberstalker

By: Lisa Slade

Lisa Slade — Thu, 04 Dec 2008 23:46:59 +0000

Here, Here Keysha! What an epiphany! I don’t know who couldn’t relate to this article because everyone has been there…thank I God I got me some Deodorant for the Soul and now I Don’t Sweat Anybody Any Mo!!!! You’re absolutely right… It takes up way to much precious time and energy…the bottom line is…if they are for you then they will let you know..if they are not for you…then they will show you! We just have to learn how to believe what we see! But the bottom line is we waste entirely too much time looking and worrying about finding the “right one,” when instead we should be using that time and energy becoming the “right one.”

AhhhIluvit!!!!!

Lisa-Lis

By: Keysha

Keysha — Thu, 04 Dec 2008 17:52:03 +0000

Thanks for your comments, Vicky, Maza and Marguerite!

Maza – lol @ un-single – well by a Single Women Rule definition that would be married, because we know even if you have a boyfriend, you’re still single . . . as for continuing the blog – there will aaaaallllllwaaays be single women who can relate to our message, so I’m going to ride it until the wheels fall off!

Beyonce’s song is very true of most dead-end long-term relationships!

Vicky – I’m glad I’m not the only one! lol.

Thanks Marguerite – I’ll do my best to remain honest so we can expose the ugly little traps we fall into.

By: Vicky

Vicky — Thu, 04 Dec 2008 16:55:58 +0000

I have been guilty of cyber stalking too. It’s bonkers and I know it stems from insecurity. Now I handle communicating with dates by the good old fashioned methods of phone, or face to face meetings. It has actually freed me up to get on with my life, and not spend all my time wondering what ‘he’s’ doing, why he hasn’t contacted me etc etc. I feel a lot happier too.

By: Marguerite

Marguerite — Thu, 04 Dec 2008 06:04:35 +0000

You write with such honestly, thank you.
I am neither on either end, now; but, I think we can all relate to using too much of our precious energy and time, wasting it away on an “infatuation”.

By: Maza

Maza — Wed, 03 Dec 2008 19:32:42 +0000

…and will you still continue this blog when you’re un-single? Or, will you pass the baton? And, what do you think of the Single Trannies, I mean, Single Ladies song? I didn’t like it, then it grew on me…now it’s like gangrene or the gout and I despise its existence.

By: Maza

Maza — Wed, 03 Dec 2008 19:30:10 +0000

OMG – this is so damned true; except I was on the receiving end of the cyber-stalking (this just all just came to a head this past Monday which makes this article oh-so pertinent) and it has permanently severed whatever friendship I had with ‘Person X’ (we’ll call him). Ugh. We need to do lunch soon. =]