Comments on: How to love the man who got away

By: R.M. Knight

R.M. Knight — Mon, 01 Dec 2008 02:50:49 +0000

It’s that lonely time of the year again. The holidays usually bring on the miseries, but not any more. Used to be Saturday nights at home alone had that same effect on me. Make plans, my friends. Help somebody who needs it. Be involved. Eventually the mystery of lost loves fades, when you insist on living in the here and now…it helps to focus on people who are loving and let the “aloofs” dissolve. People who lack substance do dissolve when not maintained by our imaginations, I have discovered.
Rock on,
Rainy K.

By: sara

sara — Fri, 21 Nov 2008 01:58:58 +0000

Just knowing that I am not crazy for thinking of the one who got away and fantasizing that he will come rushing back, makes me feel so much better. Knowing I am not the only one who feels this pain makes me feel better. I just hope I can stay positive and strong and not feel sorry for myself for being alone at this time and blaming myself for him leaving–like only if I had been better or not felt angry etc. Anyway thanks a lot and many prayers for everyone going through this same thing.

By: Tracey

Tracey — Thu, 20 Nov 2008 21:58:10 +0000

Talk about timing, I was dating an ex recently and he still treated me very badly. So I decided to break up with him, he phoned me convinced me I was making a mistake. So I took him back, (that was last Wednesday). We had plans to hang out on Saturday and I have not heard from him, didn’t even get a cant’ make it tonight email, phone call, text etc. I have been hanging onto the hurt since Saturday, but with this article I see that I can let him go with peace…cause trust me that’s not what I was feeling with him.

By: Susan N. Pearl

Susan N. Pearl — Thu, 20 Nov 2008 20:42:19 +0000

Terry, you must be my Guardian Angel. How timely you posed this article. Thanks in advance. My love moved across Canada 5.5 wks ago. He moved back to his birthplace. Bought an ocean property, never married (nor met anyone he wanted to spend time with until…. Lived 12 yrs in his apartmment. Guess he doesn’t miss me enough yet. He took a card that had my pictures in it.I snapped his photos uploaded them onto my computer background & my Blackberry. My pyschic girl friend showed me how to release him on Full Moon nights. Think you finally got through to me. We lived in the same apartment complex he was in one building and I was in another. He didn’t have to drive me home but the walks from his building to mine I floated across the parking loy. We met 12 yrs ago after connecting on a dating line (no chemistry) In August while I was purging papers for my residential move, I came across his phone # and felt compelled to call. Left a voice message and he returned the call the next day. He did not remember me. We re-met again mid August and the parking lot shook. Our 1st date was the end of the month. I can still picture him and how yummy he looked. We walked around the man-made lake that wass nestled behind my apartment building. OUr walk was cut short — without warning the skies opened and it started to pour– we got drenched. Chemistry Plus Attraction was overpowering. We dated some more, texted and he was persuing me. He moved across Canada after our Canadian Thanksgiving. Promised to call, email and text. To date — heard zero. My support team has been telling me that he does not deserve me and their are great guys just waiting to be discovered. He is due back in January. My psychic reading in September indicated that he was only here for a short time. After reading the posts for all the other readers and your post Terry. I am readier to cut him loose and find the man who deserves me. Forever Grateful Susan

By: Terry

Terry — Thu, 20 Nov 2008 20:18:59 +0000

Lynda, Marguerite, and Rayna-Your comments made my day.

Goli-Can you put space between yourself and this so-called friend? Spend as little time with her as possible. She sounds like bad news.

By: Rayna

Rayna — Thu, 20 Nov 2008 17:10:46 +0000

This is just awesome! This morning I prayed for Truth in this subject matter. And lo and behold, right in front of me in black and white and answer to my prayer. Yes this things you sorta already know in theory and logic, but sometimes to see them and read them……..ALOUD, makes all the difference in the world.

By: Michelle

Michelle — Thu, 20 Nov 2008 16:59:00 +0000

This is so very true. I went through this with a man I thought was just right for me when we met. We dated for a while only to find out he had cold feet whenever we got close. I think he secretly loves the chase. For months I pouted, cried, felt awful, then.. finally I wrote him a note and dismissed him in a wonderful you have a nice life there’s nothing wrong with you but I deserve more kind of way. When he phones me now, I simply am to busy enjoying my life to pick up the phone. You have to try this ladies… it really works… just let him go with your blessing.

By: Goli

Goli — Thu, 20 Nov 2008 16:46:52 +0000

Dear Terry,
I’ve been trying to do what you just explained in ur note, and I think I’ve been successful to some extent, but the thing that is bothering me is my guy is still around and one of my friends is heating on him! she bring her stories to me and to be honest walks on my nerves with them! I think I’m so over him now but still this friend can ruin my life, I see him going out with other girls and I’m totally fine with that, but with her even a simple smile kills me:( I really don’t know what to do?!

By: Lynda

Lynda — Thu, 20 Nov 2008 16:15:54 +0000

Dear Terry,
I have been subscribed to your newsletter for over a year now. I regularly read your articles and know that I would benefit from your MarrySmart.but I have never ordered. You see.. I fell for a married man. we were friends until he changed the rules. and I allowed him to.. I have been in denial for five years. and just only recently “snapped” into my painful reality…I had been walking around angry at him for choosing to stay married and not leave his wife for me..As a result of that. I stayed trapped in a place where I knew love would have no portal!
I read “How to Love the Man that Got Away”.. and although I have known this in theory.. something clicked.. and I am going to try this. I know in my heart that this is what I have needed to do… You have such “Love Genius” in your soul. I am thankful for you….

Lovingly,
Lynda

By: Marguerite

Marguerite — Thu, 20 Nov 2008 12:49:04 +0000

Dear Terry~
You are so right on!
When we feel hurt sometimes we just like to ignore it, like it’s going to go away. Your advice on how to “feel it”, is good. It gives it a chance “to be”, “to exist” and, then, “to leave” us.
Also, Prayer is so positive….
Love given comes back to us; maybe not by this one, but, by another. Good begets good; and, loving makes us loved.
And, Yes, very importantly, your advice on using our energy, and, redirecting it to something else, some goal is excellent.
Your vibes are right on!

Keep up the good work; and, thank you for loving your sisters!

Your friend,
Marguerite

By: admin

admin — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 13:21:19 +0000

Thank you, Binwah! We appreciate it.

By: Binwah

Binwah — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 02:52:25 +0000

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